Cooking when onion and garlic are off the menu
Garlic-infused oil is a well-used trick: FODMAPs are water-soluble, not fat-soluble, so the flavour often passes into oil without the trigger component. Spring onion green tops, chives and asafoetida (in tiny amounts) help too.
Build meals around protein, tolerated starch and safe vegetables: rice, potatoes, oats, carrots, spinach, courgette, eggs, fish, chicken and hard cheeses are often better tolerated than shortcuts heavy in onion, garlic and wheat.
Batch one neutral base - grilled chicken, rice, roasted carrots - then vary sauces so the household is not eating three different dinners.
The three phases (not a forever diet)
Phase one is a short elimination of high-FODMAP foods - often two to six weeks - to see if symptoms improve. Phase two is structured reintroduction, one food group at a time, to learn your personal tolerance. Phase three is your long-term personalised diet: as wide as possible, as low in restriction as you can manage.
The goal is the broadest diet you tolerate, not the smallest. Many people can return to garlic, onion or beans in modest amounts once they know their threshold.
Meal Pilot recipes tagged low FODMAP are starting points for the elimination phase - they are not a substitute for a full dietetic plan.